Depending on how old your toddler is, she should be passing certain developmental milestones. As you watch your toddler play, you may see her intensely focusing on what she is doing, and that is because everything she does is an opportunity to learn.
At one-year-old, your toddler will be able to gather and recall some information to find answers to problems she may face when playing. One-year-olds are usually attracted to toys with buttons, levers, switches, and knobs, but your toddler may ignore the toy if she is not quite ready to play with it yet. Once your child turns one, she will begin imitating what she sees everyday and will display this in how she plays. For example, she may “drink” from a cup or “knock” on a door, and therefore it is extremely important to monitor your own behavior because she will most likely imitate it. Your child will initially imitate by herself, but as she develops, she will gradually include others in her imitation play.
As she nears two years old, your toddler will begin to shine at hide-and-seek type games, and will remember where hidden items are even after you hide it from her. Your toddler knows she is in control, and she will let you know what role she wants you to play in her games. She will occasionally bring you a toy so you can play with her, but sometimes she will pull her toys away from you so she can play by herself. When she does something she thinks as special, she will pause and wait for your praise. And giving her this affirmation gives her the encouragement and support she needs to continue learning. If your child is not quite at these stages of development, don’t worry, just talk to your doctor to see what steps you can take to get your child on track.